What I Wish More Women Knew About Breastfeeding Before Giving Birth

by | Sep 9, 2024 | Breastfeeding, Caitlin Dean RN, Lactation, Nursing, Women's Health

Breastfeeding Support: What I Wish More Women Knew Before Birth

The Importance of Breastfeeding Support for New Moms

Breastfeeding support is crucial for new mothers navigating the challenges and joys of feeding their babies. As a Postpartum Registered Nurse and International Board Certified Lactation Consultant (IBCLC), I have seen firsthand how vital support is in helping mothers reach their breastfeeding goals. Breastfeeding is a skill that requires practice, patience, and encouragement, and having the proper support can make all the difference.

First and foremost, I wish women, especially first-time moms, would give themselves grace. You have just grown and delivered a tiny human—an incredible feat regardless of delivery method. Your body has been through a lot, and now you are learning to care for a newborn who demands constant attention. Breastfeeding is not always easy; many mothers face challenges, which is why breastfeeding support is so important.

Educating yourself about breastfeeding before birth can significantly improve your experience. Parents who take courses or read about breastfeeding tend to have more realistic expectations and better outcomes. This preparation also helps partners understand how they can provide breastfeeding support. Fathers and partners play a vital role by assisting with household tasks, keeping mom nourished and hydrated, managing pumping equipment, and offering emotional encouragement. This support allows the mother to focus on mastering breastfeeding in those critical early days.

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How Breastfeeding Support Helps Increase Milk Supply

One of the most common questions is, “How can I make more breastmilk?” Understanding how breastmilk is produced is key to answering this. Breastmilk production works on a supply-and-demand basis. The more frequently and effectively your breasts are stimulated—whether by your baby, pumping, or hand expression—the more milk your body will produce.

Breastmilk is made in clusters of cells called alveoli. When stimulated, your brain releases prolactin and oxytocin. Prolactin signals the alveoli to produce milk, while oxytocin triggers the let-down reflex, pushing milk through the ducts to your baby. Consistent breastfeeding or milk expression every 2-3 hours and responding to your baby’s feeding cues helps maintain and increase milk supply.

Good breastfeeding support also includes guidance on nutrition and hydration. Eating a balanced, whole-food diet and drinking plenty of fluids with electrolytes supports your body’s ability to produce milk. While many factors influence breastfeeding success, frequent and consistent milk removal remains the most effective way to protect and boost supply.

Many new mothers encounter unexpected challenges during their breastfeeding journey. Issues such as latch difficulties, nipple pain, engorgement, and concerns about milk supply are common but can feel overwhelming without proper guidance. Understanding that these challenges are regular and often temporary can help reduce anxiety and build confidence.

Latching problems often arise because babies need time to learn how to feed effectively. A shallow latch can cause nipple soreness and inefficient milk transfer. Seeking early help from a lactation consultant or experienced nurse can make a significant difference. They can provide hands-on techniques to improve latch and positioning, ensuring both mother and baby are comfortable.

Engorgement, where breasts become overly full and painful, usually occurs in the first few days after birth or if feedings are missed. Regular feeding or expressing milk helps relieve this discomfort and maintains milk flow. Applying warm compresses before feeding and cold packs afterward can soothe swelling.

Emotional Well-being and Support Systems

The emotional aspect of breastfeeding is often overlooked, but is just as important as the physical. New mothers may experience feelings of frustration, guilt, or isolation, especially if breastfeeding is more difficult than expected. Emotional support from partners, family, and healthcare providers is crucial in sustaining motivation and resilience.

Partners can be a vital source of encouragement by acknowledging the effort breastfeeding requires and assisting with household tasks and baby care. Joining support groups in person or online connects mothers with others experiencing similar journeys, providing a sense of community and shared understanding.

Practical Tips for a Successful Journey

Establishing a comfortable and calm feeding environment helps both mother and baby relax. Finding a quiet space with supportive seating and minimal distractions can improve feeding sessions. Keeping essentials like water, snacks, burp cloths, and nursing pillows nearby reduces interruptions.

Consistency is key. Feeding on demand, responding to early hunger cues such as rooting or sucking motions, rather than waiting for crying, supports milk production and prevents frustration for both mother and baby. Tracking feeding times and durations can help identify patterns and ensure the baby is feeding adequately.

Taking care of oneself is essential—adequate rest, balanced nutrition, and hydration support recovery and milk production. Mindfulness or gentle breathing exercises can reduce stress and enhance the bonding experience during feeding.

Are you a new mama or expecting soon but looking for support on your breastfeeding journey? Schedule a consultation with Caitlin today!

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